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{One Year Later} What Blogging Has Taught Me

February 24, 2014

I think I’ve written and rewritten this post 20 times. I just can’t seem to get the words right. I have struggled with a handful of posts but of the 270 written in the last 365 days none have been harder than this one. Ironically, today is a day to celebrate. One year ago I started this beautiful blog of mine that has become so much more than I could have ever hoped for.

Many will not understand why this is such a monumental day or why it is even worth acknowledging, but for me today is a day to look back on where I started and the immense growth this blog and I have made in the last year.

happy birthday THM

On February 24th, 2013 I sat down at my computer and typed my first post. It was a long time coming and I think I had talked about starting a blog for years before I got the courage to do it. This blog was my first step in feeling my fears. A step that gave me the confidence to take so many risks I might have otherwise have passed up.

I remember exactly how I was feeling when I started THM. I was miserable at my job, I had injured my leg and couldn’t take out my frustrations at the gym and another brutal winter was getting to me. I felt like I had no hobbies, nothing to look forward to when 5:00 PM hit. I knew I needed a creative outlet and a place where I could let out the thoughts that were constantly reeling in my head. I also knew that I couldn’t send out one more email with a recipe or workout. I needed one location for all of this. A place where I could share these recipes, express my feelings and most of all, chronicle my journey. I could NEVER have imagined that it would grow into my passion.

In the past year I’ve learned so much about blogging and even more about myself. It is with that I want to share with you what blogging has taught me.

Feel your fears. I wrote a post on this last week. Starting a blog was terrifying and telling people about it even more so. I opened myself up to a whole new world of criticism but what I actually got in return was an incredible amount of positive feedback. There are times when I am certain people disagree with me or don’t like my recipes, but more often than not the response I get truly warms my heart. Seeing you make my recipes, comment on a post with your own experiences or send me an email just to say hey is why I wake up and do this everyday. If you’re considering starting a blog, just do it!

Change is good. I spent most of the past 24 years dreading change. It was something that gave me anxiety and any thoughts about the future were avoided at all cost (or spent calling my Mom declaring my newly found “career”). It is the same story for blogging. I was scared to move away from fitness and focus more on food. I was scared to try out more savoury recipes. Heck I didn’t sleep for 3 days when my blog was redesigned and transferred from blogger to WordPress. But in hindsight I am beyond happy I did all of these things. I’ve come to learn that change rarely feels good while it’s happening but is always worth it. Now to tackle my cookbook fear…

before and after

Bloggers are real people. I’ve been reading blogs for years! In my mind many of the blogs I read were celebrity status and would never want anything to do with me. Turns out I could not have been more wrong. I am thrilled when I hear from readers and in my experience so are most bloggers. If you’re too scared to comment or send an email, don’t be! Bloggers also make mistakes and are allowed to have a change of opinion. Bloggers aren’t all experts, but experts don’t always know what’s best for you. Now let’s discuss this hilarious twitter convo with Heather. I was legit starstruck when she responded to me. For the record Heather, I still have a girl crush on you!

KMB-tweet

You’re allowed to want to be successful. For some reason I’ve always thought I had to hide the fact that I want to improve. Whether it be in becoming a better version of myself , being a successful person or blogger, or in improving the blog, there is absolutely nothing wrong with growth. For those of you who have followed THM since the beginning it’s clear that my photography has greatly improved. That was something that I haven’t be secretive about struggling with or wanting to be better at. And you know what? The struggle was worth it and I look back and am glad I was transparent through the journey.

photography

Less is more. Besides this post of course. One thing that I value in other blogs is when they don’t overload you with words or information. I tend to keep my text relatively short and stick to one subject at a time. While it’s great to teach about ways to motivate yourself to workout, show pictures from your latest trip and share a granola bar recipe, having them all in one post is overwhelming. When I first started I tried to do it all, but less has certainly proven to be more. As it turns out this rule has been incredibly applicable to my workout regimen. What used to be a 6 day a week, well-planned ordeal has now turned into a “workout when I can and when I want to” type of deal. My body certainly appreciates this less is more attitude.

Pay it forward. Me and the blog would not be where we are at today without SO much help from others. I have had incredible mentors and friends teach me about blogging, photography, advertising or just an ear to vent to. The list could go on but I have to recognize four incredible bloggers who without a stitch of competitiveness have shared a wealth of information with me. I am more than happy to do the same for others and am hoping to incorporate more of these tips on the blog in the year to come. The same goes “in real life”. Your success does not depend on the failure of others. So pay it forward.

And to everyone else who is here everyday without fail, stops by occasionally, has volunteered as a taste-tester or has stepped in during kitchen meltdowns, I cannot thank you enough. This place would not be what it has grown to become without you. I feel incredibly blessed.

This blog gave me passion when I was feeling passionless, a creative outlet when I thought I had no imagination and a purpose when I felt I was living without resolve. What an incredible year it has been and I cannot wait to see what the next one brings. I’m sure you’ll hear all about it!

Bloggers, what has blogging taught you? Non-bloggers, leave a comment! I LOVE hearing from you.

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    Dawn Cannady
    October 27, 2014 at 8:29 am

    Loved reading your blog’s birthday post. I’ve been debating on starting one myself. I’ve never been really great with words, so that has slowed me down. I’m creative, but not with words. I love painting, sewing, scrap-booking, cooking, gardening, refinishing furniture, etc.; but when it comes to wording…I get that complete ‘stuck’ feeling. Your post is an inspiration. I just may have to finally put fingers to keys and see if creative juices start flowing!

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      Davida Kugelmass
      October 28, 2014 at 11:26 pm

      Thank you so much Dawn! So sweet of you to comment 🙂 To be honest, I never would have and still don’t consider myself a writer. I just have lots of recipes and random life events to share so I write as if I were writing to my best friend. That would be my piece of advice to you! Go for it and if you have any questions along the way feel free to email me! Best of luck 🙂 -D

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    Karey @ Nutty About Health
    February 27, 2014 at 9:18 pm

    Happy Bloggiversary (a bit late)!! Love your blog & it’s amazing all you’ve accomplished in just one year! Congrats!! 🙂

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    Amy @ Long Drive Journey
    February 26, 2014 at 3:12 pm

    Sorry I missed this yesterday! So happy for you – you SHOULD be proud of your accomplishments and all of the success that your blog has had. Good for you for being honest about wanting to be successful. Everyone wants someone (or lots of someones) to read their blog – that’s why they put them on the internet for all to see! Anyone who says otherwise isn’t being honest with you or themselves. Can’t believe you’ve only been at it for one year! That’s amazing 🙂

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    Mary Frances
    February 26, 2014 at 1:50 pm

    You’ve only been blogging for a year?! I have always assumed you’re been doing this forever – you are SO good at it! I cannot agree more with the last one – I’ve loved meeting bloggers and realizing, oh my gosh, they’re just like me! (vs. aloof, successful, too busy to chat, etc.) I think I’m going to move from Blogger to WordPress soon – thanks for the preparation; I better get my naps now, huh? 🙂

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    Gina @ Health, Love, and Chocolate
    February 25, 2014 at 10:55 pm

    I’m late (but I always seem to miss real birthdays, so no surprise there), but happy blogging birthday! It took me about two years of reading blogs and thinking of starting my own before I finally did it, and boy was it a game changer. The community that comes with blogging is seriously just unfathomable (and amazing) until you are a part of it. I mean, I have met a few of what I consider to be my closest friends through blogging/social media which would have seemed crazy to me before the blog. I feel like I was so stuck in a routine when I started school and blogging allowed me to branch out more because I had such a solid support structure. Here’s to another year of delicious recipes and random rambles!

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    Allison
    February 25, 2014 at 10:24 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY THM!!!! I love this post and love to see how much you have learned in your first very successful year of blogging. I love to hear that other people have been in the places I feel that I am in and have the same blogger celebrity crushes/intimidations. thank you for inspiring me to make my blog a better place!
    Cannot wait to see where the next year takes you!

    p.s go for the book it’ll be GREAT!!!

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    Kim @ Racing Bananas
    February 25, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    “Your success does not depend on the failure of others” <–no truer words have ever been spoken. Love it! And happy birthday!!

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    Suzanne @ hello, veggy!
    February 25, 2014 at 8:25 pm

    HAPPY BLOGIVERSARY! I am so blessed to have gotten to know you!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo times infinity

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    Gabby @ the veggie nook
    February 25, 2014 at 2:48 pm

    Congratulations Davida! I am so so happy for you and so happy you started a blog since it allowed me to connect with you! The biggest thing I’m taking away from blogging is what I learned about myself- that I have something worth saying. That isn’t something I ever believed before I started sending my words out into the random void and it’s a priceless gift readers have given me. I could not be more grateful for it 🙂

    Congrats again! I think it’s so cool our blogiversaries are so close together. Next year- celebratory dinner yes??

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